What is a safe word?

A safe word is a code word or phrase that is pre-determined by participants in a sexual or BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission) activity to signal when one person wants to stop the activity. The purpose of a safe word is to establish clear communication and boundaries between partners to ensure that both parties feel comfortable and safe during the activity.

Safe words are typically chosen because they are easy to remember, distinct from normal conversation, and unlikely to be used accidentally. Common safe words include "red," "banana," or "pineapple." It is important for all partners involved to respect and honor the safe word when it is used, as it indicates a need to stop or slow down the activity.

Safe words can also be used in non-sexual contexts, such as in a therapy session or during physical activities like martial arts or sports, to indicate when a participant needs to stop or take a break. Ultimately, the use of a safe word is a tool for ensuring clear communication, setting boundaries, and promoting a safe and consensual environment for all involved.